my guy requirements [as stated by mike, 2005]

1. would stand up against bad guys for you
2. must NOT be Richard Chen-ish
3. must NOT be Richard Chen
4. not mean
5. straight
6. not gay
7. perfect (in your eyes)
8. committed
9. easy-going
10. fun
11. outgoing (in moderation)
12. nice eyes
13. is a thinker XD
14. is a good friend
15. has parents you can get along with
16. good family
17. would go anywhere with you
18. caring
19. loving
20. nice
21. good name (i.e. NOT Barney)
22. not aggressive, but can put up a good argument
23. no criminal record
24. accepts your (abundant) flaws
25. good with people
26. has a job
27. LOVES YOU
28. must be willing to fight over (or for) you
29. not boss you around
30. quick and witty
31. intelligent
32. smart
33. be able to support you (both emotionally and physically XD)
    
34. get along with family
35. get along with me (but not too well la)
36. CHRISTIAN
37. helpful
38. friendly
39. good cook is a bonus
40. bigger than you (but not fat)
41. willing to have kids
42. not superficial
43. not over-possessed
44. protective
45. polite
46. understanding
47. doesn't pressure you
48. reasonably good-looking
49. enjoys stargazing
50. enjoys food
51. nice hair
52. hygienic
    
53. compromising
54. capable of comforting you
55. faithful
56. patient
57. tolerant
58. is able to put up with your moods
59. confidante
60. understanding
61. knowledgeable
62. can hold good conversations
63. shares some of your interests (e.g. photog)
64. not crude and cold
65. warm and loving
66. understands your brand of humour
67. good shoulders to cry on
68. trustworthy
69. gives sense of security
70. helps with housework
71. can cook (bonus)
72. generous
73. truthful
74. can provide for you
75. respectful
76. polite
77. trusting

lol, the good ol' year 9 days when we really had nothing better to do besides ornamenting our diaries. it was a work of art, i say.

the list i drew up for mike was almost identical, i'd say XD

yes, we were really bored back then.